A gentle firmness and consistency

It is also very hard to change horses in midstream. If you were very permissible with her and then all of a sudden decided you had had enough, she was probably very confused. I would have balked too. For starters I would have had to know if this was a one time effort or if you really meant business. hmmmmmmm

On the other hand, you really can't announce on the first date that you are dominant and expect to be obeyed at all times. But.....you can do some small things to set the stage and see if she responds. Words and tone of voice can be very seductive to submissive women. A gentle firmness and consistency in what you expect are very important.

If your new love interest does not respond well to this, either oblivious or outrightly defiant, then chances are she isn't going to respond well to anything else. If you sense she is receptive then you can try moving forward.

To me it is not just about the bedroom. If a man can't or won't show his dominance in everyday areas, then it is very hard for me to feel he is truly dominant in the bedroom.

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